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| Deborah Abimbola-Akanbi |
Looking at the word "bringing", as a continuous tense, it is an action word, expected to be carried out continually.
Literally, the word "charm" means "the power or quality of delighting, attracting, or fascinating others."
It's something very attractive, beautiful, glamourous, lovely, appealing and alluring.
I'm sure you are wondering if your wife has all of these qualities inside of her😃
Yes, she does! Every woman is an embodiment of charm❤️
Every woman is an embodiment of beauty🌟
Every woman is an embodiment of grace🔥
No woman is created void by God. Do you still remember, she's the last born of creation🤷♀️To even think about the nature of her making (Genesis 2:21-22), it is never a mistake to say, God creatively worked on her and loaded her with all she needs to be a blessing to the man she's made for especially, and everyone that crosses her path in life.
Yes, an embodiment of grace🔥
Your wife, irrespective of her present stature, attitude, complexion, or status, is never an ordinary being. She is loaded with grace and favour. She carries inside of her "charm". She is beautiful than what you are seeing now. Her beauty is better than that of any woman anywhere. I know someone is doubting what I'm saying about his wife now. You only need to dig it out. Just wait and see! You will soon know you are married to the most alluring woman on earth👑
I think every husband should say thank You Jesus for blessing me with my own wife.
It's of importance, you rejoice in the Lord for blessing you with one of His daughters😃💃 and be satisfied with her all the days of your life.
I have come to announce the mind of God to you. Your wife is the best gift on earth for you🌟
18. "Let your wife be a fountain of blessing for you. Rejoice in the wife of your youth."
19. "She is a loving deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts satisfy you always. May you always be captivated by her love." Proverbs 5:18-19 (NLT)
As a Christian husband, bringing out the charm in your wife, will demand that you nourish and cherish her.
So how exactly can you do this🤷♀️
Here are some tips for you ✨✨✨✨✨✨
👉 Submit Yourself as a Man to God.
Submit your will, your heart, your ego to God. Be humble to God as a man. James 4:7
When you submit the whole of you to God as a man, everything, and everyone including your wife will submit to you.
👉 Love Your Wife Unconditionally.
Cherishing your wife entails endless expression of love to her. God commands in His Word that you "love your wives, even as Christ also loved you, the Church, and gave himself for it."(Ephesians 5:25)
Jesus loved and died for you. Not because you are good, but because His love is unconditional. In this way, He commands that you love your wife, irrespective of her frailties, deficiencies, or weakness.
👉 Love Your Wife Sacrificially
God wants you to be sacrificial in your love for her.
This God-kind of love, will make you do everything possible to help your wife live a happier, healthier and more productive life, not minding what might cost you.
God wants you to be gentle, patient, and tolerant with her. Don't blow her mistake out of proportion. She is human. She is a divine project in your hand. You must not fail God.
👉 Make Her Feel Special
Constantly affirm to her, how special and invaluable she is to you. Honour her, respect her opinion, appreciate and support her always.
Years of your marriage has nothing to do with this
Regularly touch her and embrace her in love.
Tell her thank you regularly, for taking care of the home. Appreciate her, for nurturing the children. Even if she hasn't started doing it or she has not been doing it to your expectation, when you tell her thank you, you're sowing a seed of kindness in love, that is good enough to bring out radiance (charm) out of her.
I feel good and relaxed like a woman, whenever my Super man tells me "Oyinmi, thank you for everything you are doing for us". The energy to do more is deposited in me immediately 😃💪
Do this often and see how lovely your wife will turn.
👉 Shepherd Your Wife
Your wife is absolutely in your care. Protect her like a good Shepherd.
She wants to see Jesus the great Shepherd in you always in all your dealings with her.
Provide her a conducive environment in your home as well as a protective and safe atmosphere outside your home, to make life easier for her. (1 Timothy 5:8)
Care for her; You are her leader.
Direct her aright; You are her Shepherd.
While she follows you, care for her as a mother would care for her dependent baby.
Notice when she is stressed or sick and respond to her needs accordingly.
Your care will assure her of being a unique part of your life and that she is your priority.
👉 Lend Your Wife a Helping Hand
Only few men know that women are swept off their feet when their husbands lend them helping hands in the house chores. Yes, it works like magic!
Assist her with house chores.
Be there for her in parenting.
Let her get some rest and richer devotion with God. She will remain ever charming for you and give you rest.
Make her feel your impact when you are around so she can miss your presence when you are away.
👉 Encourage Her to Build a Better Spiritual Life, Career and Business.
Encourage and provide an enabling environment for her to be the best in everything she does.
I can assure you. You won't do any of these in vain, in the name of Jesus 🙏
My husband has never regretted it. You won't regret it, in the name of Jesus.
No wise man I know does these for his wife and is not greatly rewarded by God, the Father of both of you “the husband and the wife”. You too won't miss your rewards, in the name of Jesus 🙏
BENEFITS OF BRINGING OUT THE CHARM IN YOUR WIFE
👉 Your marital bond will be strengthened.
👉 Your home will be a haven of peace.
👉 She will give you rest of mind beyond your imagination. Know this for sure, every woman is a multiplier. Whatever you give her, she multiplies for you. If you give her rest, she'll give you rest. If you give her unrest, she'll give you unrest.
👉 She will pay you back with endearing love. I mean true❤️
👉 She will pay you back with unfeigned respect and honour🙇♀️
👉 You will get absolute submission and tender care from her. Willingly, she will put her strength under your supervision without coercion 🙇♀️
I'm trusting God, you will make these your lifestyle as a Godly husband in order to bring the uncommon beauty out of your Super Babe❤
You need not to struggle. No “gra gra” is needed🤷♀️
Your wife is an angel loaded with favour and grace to bless you. Help her to help you👏
Many are benefiting from her, do not lose it. You have the biggest portion of God's grace to enjoy from her✨🌟
You have married the most charming woman on earth.
No other woman born or unborn is as lovely, gorgeous, alluring, beautiful, as your own wife 💃👑👸
Make efforts to bring the charm out of your wife.
Grace to continually bring out the charm in your wife is released unto you as her husband like never before, in the name of Jesus 🙏
© Deborah Abimbola-Akanbi
Royal Home Foundation International